The Japanese say we have three faces, one we show the world, one we show our close friends/family and one even we do not see.
What about the one we put up online?
Online, people might be manipulating their real selves to befit their situation. For example, a business person may try to seem more professional and legitimate in order to achieve the acceptance of other businesses and end up successful.
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Despite either hatred or absolute adoration of the series, Gossip girl’s deep message and true purpose became collateral damage to all the unnecessary drama that the show deemed necessary to tell. It was narrated eventually, that Daniel Humphrey, the so-called Gossip Girl, used his ‘messages’ to drag him – a socially awkward ‘Lonely Boy,’ into the very centre of the social circle via writing himself into the Upper East Side. In simpler words, he wrote stories about himself alongside the other characters to make them connected and him, fit in.
This shows just how far people would go just to feel like they belong.
Now, Instagram ‘aesthetics,’ are they also relevant to the problems with Online Personas?
I’d say yes because I personally have two instagram accounts – a public one with, what I’d say “high” for a simple girl like me, over 1,000’s followers and a strict aesthetic (that I change far too often because it’s too difficult to maintain) and a private one with a lower number – my close friends/family and the most random and hideous photos.
I created whiterosies to post my poems and proses, but one day I think I became somewhat obsessed (don’t we all at some point) with trying to be a better version of myself – who I now realise, wasn’t me at all. In this change, I gained a lot of interest and I felt somewhat important, but my collateral damage was the poems I lost – something very important to me. I tried to track them down, but I lost more than I found.
So I want to remind my readers, if you’re creating an Online Persona, don’t make the mistake of putting your popularity above what truly matters.
xoxo,
Gossip Girl
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[A/N: a.k.a me on @s.faldy vs me on @whiterosies]